The little things are the big things
It is never being too old to hold hands
It is remembering to say"I love you" at least once a day
It is never going to sleep angry

It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end with the honeymoon,
it should continue through all the years.

It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives
It is standing together facing the world
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family

It is doing things for each other,
not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation
and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.

It is not expecting the husband to have wings of an angel
or the wife neither
It is not looking for perfection in each other
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,understanding and a sense of humor

It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is finding room for the things of the spirit.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.

It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual
and the obligation is reciprocal.

It is not only marrying the right partner,it is being the right partner........