The Rambling Of A Wife..
4:35 PM

Yes. I'm a married woman now.

How does it make me feel, being married I mean. Well, there are changes but thankfully things are not changing too drastically. Of coz now that we're married, Amin and I has more responsibility toward each other. Every weekend is reserved for him now as we're still living apart - me in KL while Amin in Penang.

The first week of our marriage, I felt as if I was dreaming. The sweetest dream I've ever had in my entire life(yeah yeah! sounds corny I know). I couldn't believed that I was married to this man I've come to know and love for as long as I could remember. Ooopss..a bit exxagerating there, it's actually 6+ years of courting before we finally tied the knot.

As of today, it's been 19 days of our marriage. Everything's still looking and feeling sweet like honey. Still in honeymooning mood la katakan.

Last Friday, I cooked my first complete meal as a wife. The very2 first meal was actually sambal sotong I cooked at mum in-law's which somehow turned into "sotong masak hitam", so that doesn't count la..haha. Anyway, that Friday morning after he arrived, we did our shopping for groceries at the stores near home. Then, I started slicing all the ingredients for chicken curry while Amin clean the chicken. Rajin jugak rupanya suami aku ni.

The next day, after lunch we went out to buy some basic furnitures for the room. I tell you, it was much fun to actually build your life together, from zero. Yeah it was hard, with me having no transportation and he didn't bring his car here, so we had to depend on public transport i.e cab/buses/lrt. But then it makes us closer to each other and people do say that you'd appreciate something when you don't get it easily. Sometimes when our destination is just a few blocks away (15-20 minutes walk) we'd just walk down the street holding hands. Waa I tell you, I feel like a school girl in love! -Yone, if ur reading this I know you'd be laughing like crazy. Hehe...

Being a wife now, the thing that I enjoy most is being able to call him "suami saya" when speaking of him among friends. As a newlywed, I tend to chat a lot about my husband with colleagues and they simply smile and listen to what I've got to say. Newlywed la katakan...

But I'm sure all of those are only a small portion of what marriage life is all about. There'd be ups and downs I know. And I'm determined to go through it all with patience and perseverence to make everything works out okay.

So tata for now!! :-)

~The Urban Factor~